To understand my watering needs, you must first understand how I store water. I am not a true fern but an asparagus relative, and my most important feature is my rhizome. These are the plump, bulb-like structures that sit at the base of my stems, often partially above the soil. Think of them as my personal water reservoirs. When you give me a drink, these rhizomes swell with moisture. When the soil dries, I slowly draw from these reserves. This is the key: you must allow the soil to dry out somewhat between waterings to give my rhizomes a chance to use their stored water. If you keep the soil constantly wet, my rhizomes will rot, and I will not survive.
You may ask, "Is it once a week?" I must tell you, a calendar is a poor guide for my thirst. My water needs change with the seasons, the light I receive, the temperature of the room, and the humidity. The only reliable method is to check the soil directly. Please insert your finger about two inches into the soil near my base. If the top two inches of soil feel completely dry, it is time to water me thoroughly. If you feel any moisture or coolness, please wait a few more days and check again. For those who prefer tools, a simple moisture meter can take the guesswork out of this process.
When my soil is dry, I prefer a deep, thorough watering rather than a timid sprinkle. Please take me to a sink or use a watering can with a long spout to apply water evenly over the soil surface. Continue watering until you see a good amount of water flowing freely out of the drainage holes at the bottom of my pot. This ensures that my entire root system has received a drink. Crucially, you must let all the excess water drain away completely. Never let me sit in a saucer full of water, as this "wet feet" condition is a primary cause of root and rhizome rot. After draining, you can return me to my decorative pot or saucer.
My growth cycle dictates my thirst throughout the year. During the spring and summer, I am in my active growing phase. With more sunlight and warmer temperatures, I am putting out new, delicate fronds (which you call "fox tails") and my metabolism is faster. Consequently, I will need water more frequently. The soil may dry out every 5-7 days. In the fall and winter, my growth slows down significantly, almost entering a period of dormancy. With lower light levels and cooler temperatures, the soil will take much longer to dry out. During this time, you might only need to water me every 2-3 weeks, or even less. Always rely on the soil moisture test rather than a set schedule.
Beyond the seasons, other elements in your home affect me. If I am placed in a very bright, sunny spot, I will use water faster than if I am in moderate, indirect light. Rooms with air conditioning or heating vents can create dry air that causes the soil to dry out more quickly. Conversely, a more humid environment will slow down evaporation. The type of pot I live in also matters. A porous terracotta pot allows moisture to evaporate through its walls, drying the soil faster than a plastic or glazed ceramic pot. All these factors are why the finger-test is my preferred method of communication with you.