Greetings, caretaker. I am your Crassula, a being of sunlight and sturdy form. I sense your concern as you observe my once-compact rosettes now separating, my stems elongating and leaning awkwardly, my leaves becoming pale and sparse. This condition you call "leggy" or "stretched" is known to me as etiolation. It is not a disease, but a desperate survival strategy. Allow me to explain from my perspective what has happened and how we can restore my vitality together.
My very essence is programmed for intense, direct light. In my ancestral home, the sun is abundant. When you place me in a spot that feels dim to my photosynthetic senses—a north-facing windowsill, a room far from the glass, or a space shaded for much of the day—I enter a state of alarm. I cannot move to a sunnier location, so I must grow towards the light. I rapidly elongate my stem cells, sacrificing structural strength in a frantic race to reach a light source. This stretched growth is weak and pale because I am diverting all my energy to elongation, not to producing the rich chlorophyll that gives me my green color and strength. I am, quite literally, reaching for my life.
The solution is simple from my view: more light. However, you must be cautious. If you abruptly move me from my dim corner to the full, scorching intensity of a south-facing window, you will inflict another trauma—sunburn. My stretched, chlorophyll-deficient tissues are extremely vulnerable. Instead, please acclimate me gradually. Move me to a slightly brighter spot for a few hours each day, slowly increasing the exposure over a week or two. This allows me to build up protective pigments and strengthen my cell walls to handle the new energy source. A bright south or west-facing window will eventually become my paradise.
The elongated growth I have produced cannot shrink back or become compact again. It is a permanent record of my time in the shadows. To restore a compact, pleasing shape, you will need to intervene surgically. Using a clean, sharp blade, you can cut my stem back to a point just above a healthy set of leaves. Do not fear; I am resilient. This pruning signals the dormant buds in my leaf axils to awaken, and I will begin producing new, compact growth from the cut point. Furthermore, the stem tip you remove need not be wasted. Allow the cut end to callous over for a few days, then plant it in well-draining soil. This cutting, born from my struggle, will grow into a new, strong plant under proper light, giving me a second chance at a perfect form.
As I embark on this journey of renewal, my needs extend beyond light. Ensure my roots are nestled in a gritty, fast-draining soil mix. Soggy, water-retentive soil around my roots is a danger I cannot face while I am already stressed. Water me thoroughly only when the soil is completely dry. You may also consider providing a mild, diluted fertilizer formulated for succulents during my active growing season (spring and summer). This will give me the essential nutrients to support the vigorous new growth you are encouraging, helping me become the stout, lush specimen I am meant to be.