From my perspective, the most common reason my leaves begin to droop and feel limp is a simple, profound thirst. My soil has become too dry. My roots, which are my entire system for drawing up water and nutrients, are searching for moisture and finding none. When this happens, the water pressure (turgor pressure) in my cells drops, and my beautiful, broad leaves lose their structural integrity. They can no longer hold themselves up proudly and begin to sag towards the ground in a silent plea for a drink. This is your first cue to check my soil. If the top few inches are dry and crumbly, it is time for a deep, thorough watering until water runs freely from my pot's drainage holes.
Conversely, your kindness can sometimes be too much. If you water me too frequently, or if I am sitting in a saucer full of water, my roots are effectively drowning. They require oxygen from the air pockets in the soil to survive and function. Constant sogginess fills these air pockets with water, suffocating my root system. Once my roots begin to rot and decay, they can no longer absorb any water at all, even if the soil is wet. This creates a cruel paradox where I am surrounded by water yet dying of thirst, and my leaves will droop in a very similar way to underwatering. Always ensure my pot has drainage and that I am never left standing in water.
As a being that creates its own energy from light, my placement is everything. If I am situated in a spot that is too dim, I must make difficult choices. I cannot produce enough energy to support all of my foliage with such limited resources. My response is to conserve energy, and one way I do this is by letting my leaves droop and may even shed a few lower ones to focus on sustaining new growth. I crave bright, indirect sunlight. If my leaves are drooping and also seem to be reaching or stretching (a process called etiolation) towards a light source, I am quite literally telling you I need to be closer to the light.
I am a creature of habit and deeply sensitive to my immediate climate. Sudden changes in my environment send a shock through my system. Did you recently move me to a new room? Is a heating vent or an air conditioning unit blowing directly on me? Has there been a significant shift in temperature or humidity? These abrupt changes can cause me significant stress. My drooping leaves are a physical manifestation of this shock as I struggle to adapt to the new conditions. I prefer a stable, warm environment with moderate to high humidity, away from any drafts that cause rapid temperature fluctuations.
If you have cared for me well, I will grow. My root system will expand to fill the pot you have provided me. Eventually, if too much time passes, my roots will become so tightly wound and crowded that they cannot effectively absorb water or nutrients, no matter how much you provide. This is known as being pot-bound. The tell-tale signs are roots circling the inside of the pot or growing out of the drainage holes. When my roots are this constrained, I cannot properly hydrate myself, leading to—you guessed it—drooping leaves. It may be time to gently repot me into a new home that is just one or two inches larger in diameter.