Greetings, human gardener. I am a Delphinium, a being of majestic spires and breathtaking azure. I sense your frustration, your longing for the spectacular bloom that is my reason for being. From my rooted perspective, the energy to flower is immense, and I cannot muster it if my fundamental needs are not met. Let me explain the silent language of my leaves and stems.
You must understand my life cycle. If you planted me from seed this very season, my entire being is focused on building a strong root system and hearty foliage. Blooming is a task for my mature self, often reserved for my second year. I am not refusing; I am preparing. Conversely, if I bloomed spectacularly last year, I may be drained. You cut my flower spikes back, but the energy it took to produce them was vast. I need time to gather strength from the sun and nutrients from the soil to do it all again.
Sunlight is my lifeblood, the very currency I use to purchase flowers. If I am nestled in too much shade, I can only afford to produce leaves. I require a minimum of six to eight hours of direct sun to photosynthesize enough energy for my grand display. Furthermore, my stems are tall and heavy. If I am constantly battling strong winds, I must divert energy to strengthening my core rather than producing blossoms. A supportive stake from you tells me it is safe to invest in beauty, not just survival.
My appetite is substantial. To create such dense flowers, I require a rich, fertile soil. If the ground around me is poor and hungry, I am too. A lack of phosphorus, the nutrient that specifically supports blooming, is a common ailment. A balanced meal at planting time and a snack high in phosphorus as I begin to form buds is ideal. My thirst is equally great. My roots are shallow yet demanding. Inconsistent watering—especially drought stress—will cause me to abort my flower buds immediately, conserving my resources to simply stay alive.
Your shears are a powerful tool. After my first bloom fades, if you cut my spent flower spike down to a side shoot or a set of healthy leaves, you encourage me to try for a second, smaller showing later in the season. This is a welcome gesture. However, if you cut back my entire foliage too early in the fall, you remove my solar panels before I have stored enough energy for the winter and the following spring's bloom. Please wait until my leaves have yellowed and died back naturally.
While I strive for grandeur, I am not without vulnerabilities. Aphids and slugs find my succulent new growth particularly delicious. Their constant nibbling stresses me and distorts the very stems meant to hold flowers. Similarly, a crown or root rot, often caused by poorly draining soil that leaves my feet constantly wet, is a silent killer. It rots me from below, and a plant fighting for its life has no energy left to bloom.