From my perspective, your watering habits are the most common source of my distress. My roots are my mouth, and they need a balanced diet of both water and air. When you water me too frequently, the soil becomes perpetually saturated. This drowns my roots, suffocating them and preventing them from absorbing oxygen or transporting nutrients. In this oxygen-deprived state, they begin to rot and decay. With a compromised root system, I cannot support my full canopy of leaves. The yellowing and subsequent dropping of my lower, older leaves is my survival mechanism—I am sacrificing parts of myself to reduce the demand on my failing root system so that I might hopefully sustain my core.
Conversely, if you forget about me for too long, the opposite problem occurs. Without a consistent supply of water, my entire system goes into drought mode. The soil pulls away from the edges of the pot, and my fine root hairs, responsible for most of the water uptake, desiccate and die. Without water to act as the vital transport medium, essential nutrients cannot travel up my stems to the leaves. The leaves begin to lose their turgor pressure, becoming limp, turning a pale yellow or crispy brown, and eventually falling off as I am forced to abandon them to conserve the precious little moisture I have left for my main stems and roots.
I live in a confined space. The potting mix you provided me with initially contained a finite amount of food. Over time, as I grow and you water me, those nutrients are depleted. If you do not replenish them through fertilization, I begin to starve. Nitrogen is particularly vital for maintaining the lush, green chlorophyll in my leaves. A deficiency in nitrogen or other key micronutrients like magnesium or iron will manifest as a general yellowing (chlorosis) of the leaves, often starting with the older ones. I am simply unable to sustain the green, energy-producing factories, so I let them go.
My comfort zone is crucial. While I am adaptable, I have my limits. If you place me in direct, scorching sunlight, my leaves can get sunburned, causing them to yellow, bleach, and develop crispy patches before falling. On the other hand, if I am stuck in a deep, dark corner, I cannot perform sufficient photosynthesis. Without the energy produced from light, I cannot support all my foliage, and I will shed leaves to reduce my energy consumption. Additionally, I am a tropical being; I dislike drafts, both hot from vents and cold from windows or air conditioners. Sudden temperature fluctuations are a significant shock to my system, often triggering a stress response of yellowing and leaf drop.
Sometimes, the issue is not you, but tiny invaders. Pests like spider mites, scale, or mealybugs are a silent plague. They pierce my leaves and stems to suck out the nutrient-rich sap, essentially stealing my food and water. This feeding activity damages the cells, disrupts the flow of nutrients, and weakens the entire leaf structure. The result is stippling (tiny yellow dots), overall yellowing, wilting, and leaf loss. An infestation saps my strength, and the yellowing leaves are a visible cry for help as these pests drain my vitality.