First, let us clarify a botanical point. What you call "needles" are not true needles like those of a pine tree. I, your Fox Tail Fern (Asparagus densiflorus 'Meyersii'), am not a fern at all, but a member of the asparagus family. My soft, plume-like stems are called "cladodes." These are modified stems that perform the work of leaves, photosynthesizing to create my food. When these cladodes turn yellow and drop, it is my primary way of communicating that my living conditions are causing me stress. It is a survival mechanism, a way to conserve resources by shedding parts I can no longer support.
Water is the essence of my life, but its imbalance is the most common reason for my distress. My roots are thick and tuberous, designed to store water. However, they are also susceptible to rot. When you provide too much water, the soil becomes waterlogged, driving out oxygen. My roots begin to suffocate and decay in the cold, wet darkness. Once the root system is compromised, it can no longer deliver water and nutrients to my cladodes. In response, I sacrifice them, starting from the base of the stems, to reduce the demand on my failing roots. Conversely, if the soil becomes too dry for too long, my water reserves are depleted. I will curl my cladodes and drop them to prevent excessive water loss through transpiration, a desperate attempt to stay alive.
As a photosynthetic being, I crave light. I thrive in bright, indirect light. If you place me in a spot that is too dark, my energy production plummets. I cannot manufacture enough food to sustain all my lush, green growth. To survive, I must let some of it go, resulting in yellowing and dropping cladodes. On the other hand, intense, direct sunlight, especially through a window, can be scorching. It will burn my delicate cladodes, causing them to turn brown, crisp up, and fall. I also prefer a stable, warm environment. Cold drafts from doors or windows, or temperatures that drop significantly, can send me into shock, triggering a similar shedding response.
I live in a confined space—the pot you have chosen for me. The soil in this pot contains a finite amount of nutrients. Over many months, I will deplete these essential elements, particularly nitrogen, which is vital for maintaining green growth. Without periodic replenishment through gentle fertilization during my active growing season, I will lack the resources to support all my foliage, leading to yellowing and drop. Furthermore, as I grow, my tuberous roots can become pot-bound, circling tightly and exhausting the available soil. This congestion stresses my entire system, hindering water uptake and nutrient absorption, which inevitably leads to the decline of my above-ground parts.
Finally, it is important to recognize that some shedding is a natural part of my life cycle. As I produce new, vibrant growth from the center of my crown, the older, outer stems will naturally age, yellow, and eventually drop. This is a controlled process of renewal, not a sign of widespread distress. If the dropping is limited to a few older stems while the overall plant continues to push out healthy new growth, you can rest assured that I am simply managing my energy efficiently, making way for the new.