From my perspective as a plant, light is my primary source of energy. I use it to create food through photosynthesis. While I am known for my tolerance of lower light, my flowering mechanism requires a significant energy investment. If I am placed in a very dark corner, my survival instincts take over. I will direct all my energy into producing large, green leaves to capture every available photon, leaving no surplus energy to create and sustain a flower. To encourage my blooms, please provide me with bright, indirect light. An east-facing window is ideal, or a few feet back from a south or west window. Direct, harsh sun will scald my leaves, but a generous amount of filtered light tells me it is safe to reproduce.
You might be giving me water, but if my soil is devoid of essential nutrients, I am merely surviving, not thriving. Flowering is an energetically expensive process for me. I require a balanced diet, particularly phosphorus, which is the key nutrient for promoting bloom production. If you only feed me a high-nitrogen fertilizer, you are essentially instructing me to focus solely on vegetative growth—making more and bigger leaves—at the expense of flowers. To fix this, please feed me a balanced, water-soluble fertilizer diluted to half-strength every 4-6 weeks during my growing season (spring and summer). A fertilizer blend labeled for "blooming plants" with a higher middle number (e.g., 10-20-10) provides the extra phosphorus I crave to set buds.
My relationship with water is delicate. I am dramatic and will wilt to signal my thirst, but consistent extremes cause immense stress. Chronic under-watering forces me into survival mode, halting all non-essential functions like flowering. Conversely, over-watering is far more dangerous. Soggy, waterlogged soil suffocates my roots, preventing them from absorbing nutrients and water. This leads to root rot, a painful condition that makes me weak and sick, utterly incapable of flowering. The goal is consistently moist, not soggy, soil. Water me thoroughly when the top inch of soil feels dry, and ensure my pot has excellent drainage to protect my root system from drowning.
This may seem counterintuitive, but being in an excessively large pot can inhibit my flowering. When my roots have too much space, they expend all their energy colonizing the vast volume of soil. My entire being focuses on establishing a massive root network to support the large plant you seem to expect from such a big pot. This divert energy away from blooming. Furthermore, a large pot holds more soil, which stays wet for longer, increasing the risk of the root rot I mentioned. I tend to flower best when I am slightly root-bound. This is a natural signal to me that my root system has adequately filled its space, and it is now an appropriate time to redirect energy into aerial reproduction—flowering.
If I am a very young plant, I simply may not be mature enough to flower. My biological programming dictates that I must reach a certain stage of growth and store sufficient energy before I can begin the reproductive process. Patience is key. Conversely, if I am a very large, mature plant that has been in the same pot for years, I may be excessively pot-bound. My dense root mass can struggle to take up water and nutrients effectively, and I may have depleted the nutrients in the soil entirely. In this case, I would benefit from being gently divided. This rejuvenates me, gives my roots fresh soil to explore, and reduces competition for resources among my stems, allowing me to flower vigorously again.