Your Silver Vase Plant (Aechmea fasciata) is communicating its needs through its lack of flowers. From my perspective as a plant, I am not being stubborn; I am simply waiting for the correct conditions to initiate my magnificent bloom, which is the pinnacle of my life cycle. Here are the primary reasons from my point of view.
Patience is crucial. I am a bromeliad, and my life cycle is unique. I grow from a pup, a small offset from a mother plant. If you acquired me as a small pup, I may simply be too young to flower. It typically takes me 2 to 3 years to reach full maturity and gather enough energy to produce a bloom. This bloom will be a once-in-a-lifetime event for me. After I flower, I will begin to die slowly, producing my own pups to continue the lineage. Rushing this natural process is not possible.
Light is my food, and the recipe for flowering is very specific. I cannot flower without the right type and amount. If I am sitting in a deep, dark corner, I am literally starving. I lack the energy to produce such a large and complex structure. Conversely, if I am placed in direct, harsh afternoon sun, my leaves are getting scorched. I am in a defensive mode, trying to survive rather than reproduce. I thrive in bright, indirect light. A spot near an east-facing window is ideal, where I can bask in the gentle morning sun. This light signals to me that conditions are favorable for blooming.
You may focus on watering my soil, but for me, the central vase or cup formed by my rosette of leaves is my primary water reservoir. If this cup is consistently dry, I am dehydrated and stressed. Flowering is an energy-intensive process, and I will not attempt it under drought stress. Please keep my central cup about one-quarter full with fresh, clean water (rainwater or distilled is best to avoid leaf tip burn from chemicals). Remember to flush out the old water and replace it weekly to prevent stagnation and bacterial growth, which can rot my core.
While I am not a heavy feeder, I still require some nutrients to support a bloom. If I have been in the same potting mix for years, all the nutrients have been depleted. I need a gentle, balanced fertilizer. However, the method is key. Do not pour fertilizer into my soil; instead, add a diluted, water-soluble fertilizer directly to my central cup when you refresh the water. This allows me to absorb it directly. This nutritional boost, combined with good light, tells me I have the resources to support a flower spike and subsequent pups.
My internal clock is set by environmental cues. In my natural habitat, a slight drop in temperature often signals the change of seasons and the right time to flower. If your home is kept at a constant, warm temperature year-round, I may lack this trigger. Try exposing me to slightly cooler nights (around 60-65°F or 15-18°C) for a few weeks, while maintaining my daytime light exposure. This mimicry of my native environment can often be the final nudge I need to initiate the flowering process.