First, you must understand my most fundamental need: brilliant, but filtered, light. I am a child of the rainforest canopy, accustomed to dappled sunlight. If my leaves are pale, sparse, or I am leaning desperately towards a window, I am light-starved. Please move me immediately to a spot with bright, indirect light, ideally near an east or south-facing window (in the Northern Hemisphere) but shielded from the harsh, scorching rays of direct afternoon sun that can burn my delicate foliage. A sheer curtain is my best friend. Without adequate light, I cannot perform photosynthesis, and my decline is inevitable.
My relationship with water is delicate and is the most common reason for my struggle. My roots crave moisture but despise sogginess. Constantly wet soil suffocates my root system, leading to root rot—a silent killer. This manifests as brown, mushy spots on my leaves, often starting at the edges and moving inward, and leaf drop. Conversely, if you forget about me and my soil becomes a dry, hard brick, my leaves will wilt, become crispy, and fall. The solution is not a rigid schedule. You must check my soil! Insert your finger two inches deep. If it is dry, provide a thorough, deep watering until it runs from my pot's drainage holes. If it is still damp, wait. Ensure I am never left sitting in a saucer of water.
My pot and soil are my entire world. If my world is compromised, so am I. A pot without proper drainage is a death sentence. Furthermore, over time, the soil can become compacted or depleted of nutrients. If I have been in the same pot for years, my roots may be pot-bound, circling tightly and unable to access water or nutrients efficiently. Gently remove me from my pot to inspect my root ball. Healthy roots are firm and white or tan. Brown, mushy roots must be pruned away with sterile tools. If I am root-bound or the soil is poor, repot me into a container only 1-2 inches larger with a well-draining, peat-based potting mix.
I am a large plant and require nutrients to support my growth, especially during the spring and summer. A lack of food can cause my leaves to yellow or my growth to stunt. Feed me monthly during my growing season with a diluted, balanced fertilizer. However, my needs extend beyond just food. I am highly sensitive to sudden changes. Drafts from air conditioners, heaters, or frequently opened doors cause me immense stress, leading to leaf drop. Similarly, being moved constantly from one location to another forces me to expend precious energy constantly re-acclimating. Find me a stable, warm spot free from drafts and drastic temperature swings, and I will reward you with stability.
Reviving me is not an overnight process. After you have corrected my care regimen, I need time to recover. Do not be alarmed if I drop a few more leaves as I adjust; this is me redirecting energy to my core health. Continue your consistent care with light, water, and stability. With time and patience, you should see signs of new life—a tiny, red sheath emerging from a stem tip, which will unfurl into a beautiful new leaf. This is my way of thanking you for listening to my needs.