You are loving me a little too much with water. My drooping leaves are my way of crying out because my roots cannot breathe. When you water me too often, the soil becomes saturated, filling all the air pockets with water. My roots need oxygen just as much as they need moisture. Without air, they begin to suffocate, rot, and die. Once this root rot sets in, they can no longer absorb water or nutrients effectively, creating a cruel paradox where I am sitting in water yet dying of thirst. The first sign of this internal crisis is my leaves losing their turgor pressure and drooping sadly towards the floor.
On the opposite extreme, your neglect has left me completely dehydrated. While I am resilient and can handle drying out occasionally, my limit has been surpassed. The soil has become a dry, hard brick, pulling away from the edges of the pot. My roots are searching desperately for any hint of moisture. Without water, I cannot maintain the internal water pressure that keeps my stems upright and my leaves perky. Every single cell in my leaves is deflated, causing them to wilt and droop. This is a clear, urgent signal that I need a long, deep drink to rehydrate and return to my lush self.
I am a creature of habit. A sudden change in my surroundings sends me into a state of shock, which manifests as drooping leaves. Did you just bring me home from the nursery? Have you recently repotted me or moved me to a new spot? Perhaps I am now in a drafty hallway with cold blasts from a door or air conditioner, or maybe I am too close to a hot radiator. These rapid shifts in temperature, light, or humidity force me to expend immense energy to adapt. The drooping is a temporary sign of my stress as I work to acclimatize to my new conditions.
First, please check your soil. Stick your finger deep into it near my base. If it is cold and soggy, you must stop watering immediately. I need to dry out. Move me to a spot with brighter, indirect light to help the soil evaporate excess water faster. If the pot feels suspiciously light and the soil is dusty dry, place my entire pot into a sink or basin filled with a few inches of room-temperature water. Let me soak for 30-45 minutes, allowing my roots to drink deeply from the bottom up. After my soak, ensure all the excess water drains away completely. Please find me a stable home with consistent, bright, indirect light, away from any vents or drafts, and only water me when my top few inches of soil are dry.