From my perspective as a Monstera deliciosa, the question of watering is fundamentally about the health of my root system. I hail from the rainforest understory, where my roots are accustomed to ample moisture but also to excellent drainage and periods where the top layer of soil might dry out slightly. My roots need both water and air to thrive. When you water me too frequently, the soil becomes perpetually saturated, pushing out the vital oxygen my roots require. This leads to a condition called root rot, where my roots suffocate, decay, and become unable to transport water and nutrients to my beautiful, large leaves. Conversely, if you wait too long, the soil becomes a dry, hard brick. My roots desiccate, shrink, and can no longer absorb what little moisture remains, causing my leaves to droop, curl, and turn crispy brown at the edges.
I cannot simply tell you to water me every "X" number of days. My thirst is influenced by a dynamic set of environmental factors that change with the seasons and your home's conditions. Light is the primary driver; the more bright, indirect sunlight I receive, the more energy I have for growth and the more water I transpire through my leaves, meaning I will need more frequent watering. Temperature and humidity play significant roles too. A warm, dry room will cause the soil to dry out much faster than a cool, humid one. My own growth cycle is also crucial. During the spring and summer, I am actively growing and will be much thirstier. In the autumn and winter, my growth slows dramatically, and my water requirements decrease substantially. The size of my pot and the type of soil also matter; a small pot dries out faster than a large one, and a well-aerated, chunky soil mix (which I prefer) drains quicker than a dense, moisture-retentive one.
The most reliable method to understand my needs is to physically check the moisture level of my soil. Please do not rely on a superficial glance. I would ask you to insert your finger into the soil, about 2-3 inches deep (roughly up to your second knuckle). If the soil at that depth feels dry, it is a clear signal that I am ready for a drink. If it still feels cool and moist, please wait and check again in a few days. For those who prefer a less messy approach, you can use a wooden chopstick or a moisture meter. The goal is to gauge the conditions deep in the pot where my main root ball resides, not just at the surface.
When the soil is sufficiently dry, please water me thoroughly and deeply. This means slowly pouring water onto the soil until you see it begin to flow freely out of the drainage holes at the bottom of my pot. This ensures that the entire root system receives moisture. It is critical that any excess water is allowed to drain away completely. I should never be left sitting in a saucer full of water, as this will quickly lead to the root rot I mentioned earlier. Once I have fully drained, you can return me to my decorative spot. This cycle of a deep drink followed by a period of drying out mimics the natural rainfall and drying cycles of my native habitat, which is exactly what my roots are designed for.